Stop Body shaming.. Please!

What do you feel when you see yourself in  mirror?  

Did you feel happy or regret? 

If you feel happy then you are blessed, On the flip side, if you feel regret to be born like that, then you're in problematic situation. 

Body shaming, 

"Saying something about a person's body in negative sense, it can be size, age, hair, and clothing"

Body shaming leads to depression, anxiety, and body dysmorphic. Body shaming is probably the norm these days which is uncomfortable truth for me and may be for you.

Did physical appearance matter to you?

If yes! Then you are in majority. I'm gonna tell you the truth about our people. You must have heard this phrase once or twice at some point in your life, how charming you would be if you were a little thinner, how charming you would be if you were a little whiter, you are so ugly compared to her, and it is not flattering at you . It's not in our control that how could all look like. So, stop being so judgemental, and by the way,  who are you to decide this, that how should I look like?

Types of body shaming 

There are some types of body shaming. Let's jump right in without any further do. 

Fatism, 

fatism is a serious problem for those individuals,whom are discriminated in society due to that reason. You might be body shamed for being too fat. 

In Chinese culture, 

In the past china there was a widespread belief, a fat person represents his well-reputed family or his prosperity. 

In colonial America, 

In Colonial America a bigger and muscular women considered both beautiful and attractive. 

But over a period of time we saw many changes in beauty standard, these standards affect women more than men. 

Rejections, 

Frequently, you have experienced that, if girls are so  fat there would be more hurdles in their relationship as compared to boys. You have experienced it in in your college or uni that boys make fun of fat girls.  

 Ageism, 

This term was used for the very first time by "Robert Neil Butler" only for the sake of discrimination. This term is commonly used against the aged people. 

"Ageistic stereotypes" 

Ageistic stereotypes have some bad impacts on aged people . Which leads to negative results such as memory loss and cognitive performance health issue. Ageism is often done by our family, friends, siblings, and portrayed in media that, why is she/he wearing that. Never argue with someone who body-shamed you just say on thing "thank you" for your concern and I will appreciate if you don’t say things like this again.

Skinny, 

This type is quite popular these days among us. In such case, no matter how much a person eats, his health does not matter. This body shaming also happen online and offline. No body should feel ashamed i guess. People comments at you by saying,

 You should eat more, should eat cakes, should join gym, and this outfit doesn't fit you babe. Stop hiding yourself from the that kind of people and don't get affected by their comments, take some steps to overcome them. Because people always have something new to say. 

Lookism, 

Today physical appearance is everything for us sadly . Even people talk to each other on the basis of it. Nowadays, people keep judging  about each other, not on the basis of their character or talent but on the basis of their appearance.You may have face this body shaming at some point in your life. If you had to do this, so, I apologize to you on behalf of our society. I can imagine how sad you must have been. 

        " Beyond the beauty there is a world" 

Which you can never see because you are mentally and emotionally disabled.