Early marriage

Early marriage is defined as. "Marriage of a girl or a boy before the age of 18" 

OR    

                               "Union between two people in which one or both parties are younger than 18 years of age"

 Frankly speaking, this topic is very close to me, not that I am victim of this practice actually i am blessed to be born in such a good family that's supportive to women in every aspect wether it is meant for their education or their lives . I'm the only girl not in my family but also in my village who has done Graduation and nearly masters.The only reason that I am against this practice that this crime happens in my village and many others . That is very painful for me and those who have been a victim of this practice . 


       " People have to understand that               child marriage is atually a child abuse" 

         I am against this this practice because for me this practice will be the end of childhood, happiness, most importantly "Education". Girls who marry before 18 are more likely to experience domestic violence and less likely to remain in school. They have worse economic and health outcomes than their unmarried peers, which are eventually passed down to their own children. Here i'll add a point that why those mothers who have been a victim of that practice never took a stand for their children. Unfortunately i had witnessed many of such cases in my own village.

            "   Let girls be a girls not brides"   

A successful marriage needs maturity and patience which we dont have in the early marriage. Mostly the girls become the victim of early marriage. This is because of poverty in villages. Early marriage is driven by poverty and gas many effects on the girls'death. 


Increased risk for sexually transmitted diseases. 

Serviceable cancer.

 Malaria.

Death during childbirth and obstetric fistulas. Girls' offspring are at increased risk for premature birth and death. Girls' offspring are at increased risk for premature birth and death.

 

    Studies have shown that couples who have had a first child are less satisfied with their marriages”. In many cases, child marriage is a driver of early pregnancy; she didn't know anything about pregnancy or childbirth, all she knew is that she was far too young to be having a baby. 

  


      It has been reported in a toplist News channel Named gNN that in Shikarpur 

 "A 10 YEARS OLD GIRL IS FORCED TO MARRY A 40 YEARS OLD MAN " 

 Unfortunately this is not a single case that is being practiced . There are many others who have not been reported. Child marriage robs girls childhood and threatens their life . Why do parents allow early or chil marriage In the rular areas of Pakistan, early marriage or child marriage is used as a strategy to protect young women from sexual assault, instead of protecting their children they simply used weapon against their children Child (early marriage or child marriage) marriage is practiced in some parts of Pakistan, with the highest prevalence in the. 



According to the UNICEF report

From 2013, around 21% of the girls in Pakistan are married before the age of 18 the lowest rate among South Asian nation. 

"Pakistan's child marriage Restrain Act 1929 sets the legal age of marriage for boys to 18 and girls to 16" . 

Pakistan's child marriage Restrain Act 1929 sets the legal age of marriage for boys to 18 and girls to 16.In April 2014 Sindh Assembly adopted the Sindh child marriage Restrain Act which changed the minimum age to 28 for both, punishable by law .Demographic and Health Survey (PDHS) 2017-18, Qamar Naseem, a rights activist from the city of Peshawar, says 3.3% of girls are married off under the age of 15 while 18.3% of girls married off are under the age of 18.11-Mar-2021

Ratio of child marriage in pakistan as per UNICEF report in 2020,                                      

21%  girls in Pakistan get married before age of 18, while 3 per cent get marry before turning 15. “ the country has the sixth highest number of child brides in the world 



Main causes of early marriage in pakistan social norms. perceived low status of girls. poverty. lack of education. safety concerns about girl children and control over sexuality are considered to be reasons for prevalence of child marriages.

Gender-inequality 



For some poor families, the marriage of a daughter to a man who is better off is both a way of giving her access to a higher standard of living than they can offer and. Consequences The consequences not just impact the girl directly, but also her family and community. A girl who is married as a child is more likely to be out of school. 
 

Consequences 

The consequences not just impact the girl directly, but also her family and community. A girl who is married as a child is more likely to be out of school. 


      " Child marriage is a marriage or rap" 

Sex with minors under the age of 18 is a statutory crime under Section 376 of Indian Penal Code. However in Pakistan Whoever, being a male above eighteen years of age, contracts child marriage shall be punishable with simple imprisonment which may extend to one month, or with fine which may extend to one thousand rupees, or with both. But there's no implications especially in the rular areas,Sometimes in cities also. for me it is also a crime became Child marriage violates children's rights and places them at high risk of violence, exploitation, and abuse. ... It can be defined as That child marriage is not a marriage but it is a child abuse. 


 Child marriage is also a form of violence too often ignored. Some of the most heart-breaking stories that I have heard from child brides who describe the emotional and physical violence they have faced from their husbands. Many of these child brides feel like they are just there to fetch water, cook and clean, and produce children. These are the realities of child marriage.From now i am starting a campaign through my blogs and Articles to end the crime (child marriage is). I know that this will not be so effective but there is a hope in my heart that those who are reading this blog will be able to understand the pain and realty that the child brides suffer during their lives. Because child marriage can be a precursor to a death sentence: child brides often become pregnant at a young age, long before they are ready physically or emotionally, and this can have devastating consequences. In fact, complications during pregnancy and child birth is the second most common cause of death for 15-19 year olds globally. 

 

            Child marriage pregnancies

Islamabad : 

In Pakistan, one woman dies in every 20 minutes during childbirth and the major cause of the high maternal mortality ratio 276 per 100,000 live births is child marriage.19-Jan-2012.            

MATERNAL MORTALITY IN RULAR AREAS OF PAKISTAN

 Pakistan is one of the countries in South Asia ranking high in maternal mortality rate. The maternal mortality ratio in Pakistan is 186 deaths per 100,000 live births. The ratio is nearly 26% higher in rural areas as compared to urban areas. In order to avoid complications, it is imperative to provide mothers with skilled care and safety during pregnancy, and here the main reason isthe child marriage. 



 STOP THE CRIME 

Empower the girls with information, skills and support networks.

Awareness should be given to everyone through media. 

Educate your children that will be very helpful for them to make sure decisions for their lives. 

Awareness should also be given to parents who are responsible for the crime.

Encourage supportive laws and policies. 

Encourage them to be independent first and then search for a partner only after attaining a specific age. 

Effective strategy should be planned for the eradication of poverty because this isthe enough reason for the poor parents to marry their children in Childhood 

One of the most common causes of child or early marriage is the tradition which has been in practice for a long time. In many areas, ever since a girl is born, they consider her to be someone else’s property.




Empower your girls by education not by marriage. 

And Girls have to say it's my life" SAY NO TO CHILD MARRIAGE"                                                                                                                             

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